Thank you, Vidya, for letting us know your feelings. Indeed, you practice Hindu Philosophy in its true meaning-Om Sarve Bhavantu Sukhinah

Sarve Santu Niraamayaah |

Sarve Bhadraanni Pashyantu

Maa Kashcid-Duhkha-Bhaag-Bhavet |

Meaning:

1: Om, May All be Happy,

2: May All be Free from Illness.

3: May All See what is Auspicious,

4: May no one Suffer.

The way you celebrate festivals is exemplary-making others happy is true celebration.