Law of Attraction is the subject of pseudoscience, but Law of Opposites is considered proven science. It seems to me virtual creation is the first stage of reality and second final transformation of visualization in real formation. This fact is historically and scientifically justified-anything is created twice- first in mind and then in physical appearance.

In real life we see people living in poverty or riches all their lives but never attract opposites. Many stories relate- a poor boy aspired and endeavored to be rich and he became rich. A careless rich man becomes a pauper.

With reference to your wife's relationship-I quote from nature 'same feathers flock together.'

Sometimes the Law of attraction works in my life.